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spiritual by admin on September 11th, 2008 2:26 am
A child, in growing up, may meet and learn from three different kinds of disciplines. The first and most important is what we might call the discipline of nature or of reality. When he is trying to do something real, if he does the wrong thing or doesn’t do the right one, he doesn’t get the result he wants. If he doesn’t pile one block right on top of another, or tries to build on a slanting surface, his tower falls down. If he hits the wrong key, he hears the wrong note. If he
doesn’t hit the nail squarely on the head, it bends, and he has to pull it out and start with another.
If he doesn’t measure properly what he is trying to build, it won’t, close, fit, stand up, fly, float, whistle, or do whatever he wants it to do. If he closes his eyes when he swings, he doesn’t hit the ball. A child meets kind of discipline every time he tries to do something, which is why it is so important in school to give children more chances to do things, instead of just reading or listening to someone talk (or pretending to). This discipline is a great teacher. The learner never has to wait long for his answer; it usually comes quickly, often instantly. Also it is clear, and very often points toward the needed correction; from what happened he cannot only see that what he did was wrong, but also why, and what he needs to do instead. Finally, and most important, the giver of the answer, call it nature, is impersonal, impartial, and different. She doesn’t give opinion, or make judgment; she cannot be wheedled, bullied, or fooled; she doesn’t remember past failures or hold grudges; with her one always gets a fresh start, this time is want that counts. The next discipline we might call the Discipline of Culture, of Society, of What People Really Do. Man is a social, a cultural animal. Children sense around them this culture, this network of agreement, customs, habits and rules binding the adults together. They want to understand it and be a part of it. They watch very carefully what people around them are doing and want to do the same. They want to do right; unless they become convinced they can’t do right. Thus rarely misbehave seriously. In the same way, the little children that I see at concert or operas, though they may fidget a little, or perhaps take a nap now and then, rarely make any disturbance. With all those grown ups sitting there, neither moving nor talking, it is the most natural thing in the world to imitate them. Children who live among adults, who are habitually courteous to each other, and to them, will soon, learn to be courteous. Children who live surrounded by people who speak a certain may will speak that way, however much we may try to tell them that speaking that way is bad or wrong.
Posted under
insurance by admin on September 8th, 2008 7:27 am
Today on this woman diary I write about insurance. I don’t know why I want to write it. But I hope you enjoy about it and it is useful for you.
What do you think about insurance? Two years ago I don’t care about insurance, and I don’t believe it. But I don’t know why at this time my thinking is change at all, now I believe that if you want to arrange and make your life easy you can try to join insurance department. We know that bad think can be happen in our live but we absolutely don’t know when and where it will happen. By join insurance at least we shouldn’t worried about something will happen in the future. We can plan for our children education, our property, and our healthy in the future. You can image if suddenly our car is crushed on the way, we should enter our son to a university or suddenly our health condition is getting drop of course we should think about money. By planning with insurance we shouldn’t worried about it. But there are a lot of insurance companies and we don’t know which one is good, what should we do? Of course we need insurance research information. It is to be the first thing that should be done if we want to join insurance company. We can get information by making research about the most favorite insurance in our town or we can get information from internet. See you on this woman diary again…
Posted under
spiritual by admin on September 8th, 2008 7:09 am
On this woman diary now
WE SHARE WATERMELON ON THE ROOFTOP. WE SANG SONGS IN THE NIGHT AIR. REMEMBER, WE STARTED SINGING SEPARATELY, BUT ENDED SINGING TOGETHER.
AT A TIME WHEN FAVORERS OF WAR INTRODUCE ALTERNATIVE REASONS FOR WAR, OUR DUTY MUST BE INTRODUCING THOUSAND ALTERNATIVE REASONS TO CREATE PEACE.
Walls are removed, suspicions are relaxed, and reservations are revealed. Eyes sparkle with delight rather than peering for inconsistencies and flaws. Your pain causes me to heart. Your joy causes me to laugh; your pleasure brings me delight. Hands are held, not just shaken. Souls embrace as well as arms. We are brothers, sisters, siblings, we are certain that god loves us and that god expects us to love each other, and we are elated to comply. It has come so far, this concept of tolerance, from truce to trust, from respect to relationship, from sharing stories to shaping stories. And yet there is more.
Tolerance has been made complete in love and perfect love casts out all fear. What is tolerance?
It is truce: sitting on clenched fist.
It is talking: claiming my rights, my story.
It is listening: being open to your story.
It is respect: clasping hands together in trust.
It is one story: creating shared moments.
It is friendship: genuine caring
It is love: expressing complete, mature, perfect love.
It is god desire for our world’s only hope and it is our desire.
I really don’t know, when every one looking scholarship there is a part that ignore scholarship, three days ago my friend told me about Indonesian university scholarship, he said that there were a lot of opportunity in Indonesian university scholarship. Indonesian University is the no one university in Indonesia. If you not get scholarship here you will pay your school in very expensive fee. but if you get scholarship here you are lucky, because you just pay your school fee at about $50 per semester and you will get $250 per month. It is good news guys. Lets try to get this scholarship.
Actually I don’t know what should I write about the scholarship in this woman diary.
In this woman diary I just want to tell you about my friend story related the scholarship.
Two days ago I met my best friend his name is Temon iskandar. He is Indonesian. I like with him because he is kind and clever. He is smart in many subject especially in chemistry. He told me that he want to go to japan because he want to study there. He said that he going to apply for Japanese scholarship. He explained me that Japanese scholarship is the scholarship which is given by Japanese government by Japanese ambassador in every country. But if you want to get it you should able to speak in Japanese because Japanese language is daily language in your class.
In this woman diary I want to tell you about his information. He informed that there are several scholarship program: research student program, under graduate program, college of technology program, special training college program. He said that if you want to get more information you can go to jasso.or.jp. you can also get more information about japanese university and japanese ambasasador. I hope this information also useful for you, keep spirit and be better than before.
