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Children are created worthily and are due to the right to personal respect and dignity. But how can we, as parents, build strong egos and indomitable spirits in our children, despite the social forces that prevail? There are strategies by which we can instill confidence and self-worth, even in boys and girls who are under siege by their peers.

1. Examine your own values

Many children know they are loved by their parents, but do not believe they are held in high esteem by them. A child can know that you would give your life for him or her, yet still detect your doubts about his or her acceptability. Your are nervous when he speaks to guests. Your butting to explain what he was trying to say, or laugh when his remark sound foolish. Parents need to guard what they say in the presence of their children. Parents must also take the time to introduce children to good books, to fly kites and play ball with them, listen to the skeined-knee episode and talk about the birds with the broken wings. These are building blocks of esteem.

2. Teach a “no knock” policy

On characteristic of a person who feels inferior is that he talks about his deficiencies to anyone who will listen. While you are blabbing about your inadequacies, the listener is formulating an impression of you. If you put your feeling into words, they become solidified as fact in your own mind. Therefore, we should teach a “no knock” policy to our children. Constant self criticism can become a self defeating habit.

3. Help your child compensate

Our task as parents is to serve as a confident ally, encouraging when children are distressed, intervening when treat are overwhelming and giving them the tools to overcome the obstacles. One of those tools is compensation.

4. Help your child compete

Parents who oppress the stress placed on beauty, brawn and brain knows his child is forced to compete in a word that worships those attributes.

5. Discipline with respect
Parents are symbols of justice and order, and a child wonders why they would let him get away with doing harmful things if they really love him.

6. Avoid overprotection

Preparation for responsible adult-hood is derived from training during childhood. A child should be encouraged to progress on an orderly timetable, at the level of responsibility appropriate for his age. Each year a child should make more of his own decisions.
make them and create them be a good people and independent is our duty……………so don’t be bored…

Thinking Story

When I ws a litle girl, my mother told me to wait for the light to turn green before I crossed the street and to cross always at the corner . This I did. Indeed I was positive as a very young child that  I would get mashed like a potato if I even so much as stepped a foot off the side walk while the light burned red. I followed my mother’s advice until I realized that she hershelf jaywalked constantly, dodging in and out of moving traffic and pulling me with her. So after a while I followed her example and not her advice.

My father told me never to cheat or steal and I remember my intense humiliation the day, only 6 years old, I received a public speaking for swiping three dimes from the windowsill where they had been left by visiting uncle. yet my father pushed me under the turnstile to get me into the subway and got me into the movies for half fare, way after I was old enaugh to pay full price. and my mother continually brought home reams of stationery and other supplies lifted from the offices where she worked.

Both my parents exacted severe punishment for lying and yet I knew, in time, that they lied to me and to each other and to others when, presumably, they felt the ocassion warranted it. And this was just part of the story. But hypocrisy about sex, about race relations, about religion, took me a longer time to see. I was out of high school before that picture began to pull together. Understanding didn’t devastate me because I had begun to absorb the knowledge little by little, through the years. By the time I was 18 or 19 I guess I was both old enaugh to understand and strong enaugh to face what I saw. And I could face it because I learned my parents were not unusual. Most everybody’s parents were the same. And we, my my friends and I, did come to take it for granted. Parents were that way. Older people were that way. The word for what we found out about our parents’ generation was hypocrisy. And most of us accepted it as part of life as the waythings were.

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Today at this woman diary I would like to share something for you. Everyone knows that women are no longer staying at home. They have gone out in the world of work. Filling not only such traditionally feminine roles as secretary and clerk but also such typically masculine roles as lawyer, doctor, stocbroker, business executive, United state senator, and even candidate for vice presidency. At the sime time, statistics show that a growing percentage of working women are mother of preeschool children. While less than a third of these mothers held jobs outside the home. A crucial question in this women diary is how these women can reconcile the demands of a career with the responsibilities of child-rearing.
The cheapset solution to this problem is for the working mother to find a relative willing to supervise her children while she works. But aside from the children’s father, who may not be living with her and who in any case ussualy has a job of his own, she may not have relatives near enough or free enough, to serve as babysitter. The children grand parent from instance, may live beyond commuting distance, and even if they live nearby and are willing to babysit regularly, they too may be hlding jobs that make them unavailable during the day. But an obvious alternative to the babysitting relative is the professional babysitter who can be hired to care for children. In fact the major drawback here here is that professional babysitter cost money.

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